To All People In A Relationship

Have U ever wondered how Faithful your mate is (?), Of course you have!!, Imean its perfectly normal to question things of that Nature, But now I want you to ask yourself. Do you trust your mate (?), That's the mother of all questions in a relationship, especially on the female side, because most of yall know. If ya man had A choice between you and someone who looked like Keri Hilson, Lets just say, you would be single. Which is Unfortunate, but true for most relationships. But if the shoe was on the other foot and lets say, someone like Trey Songz came up to you and was interested, Yall would think twice about it, some of yall won't, but most of yall would, compared to Ya boyfriend, He wouldn't think twice about sexin' A Keri Hilson Look-A-Like, What I am gettin' to is that. Most Relationships Fail because of the simple fact one person likes the other more. Meanin' The Man likes the female more or the Female like the male more, and in both situations The person who likes more, can put pressure on their mate. Which causes uncertainty in actions. Because one person is going to feel like they are puttin' more Effort in to the relationship then the other, Which is most likely going to be true.
NOW with all of that said, WOMAN DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT!, why do U think Woman stay in stores for hours at a time. BUT even tho they like to look around and think and think and think, Sit down and think and Think and Think some more, If they see something they want, THEY WANT IT, and will try everything in their power to get it. Just Like in their relationships, Once A Female feels as tho they have a "GOOD MAN", They will attach themselves to him, Which puts pressure on the Guy, which can be dangerous and Most likely something you don't want to do, Because as Men. We think with our.......Well, You know what I'm goin' to say, which is a Myth by the way, But...The sample size is to large for it to be A Myth. Now, We in our nature are attracted to Beautiful females. WE CAN'T HELP IT!!, But Woman don't realize The power they potentially have. Especially in a relationship Because if you are a ''GOOD Woman" and your man knows that you are, if He's a Thinkin' Man, then he's not going to cheat...Well he's gonna think twice about cheatin' on you. The thinkin' man is not going to cheat because he feels as tho the risk doesn't out weight the reward, But If the thinkin' man Knows he has You and he knows that you realllyyy reallyyy like him, he may just attack your weakness, because if he knows your feelings for him are strong he also knows he has some Le-way and he knows he can get away with certain things, BUT again if the shoe was on the Other foot The woman may act like they are doin' something behind your back and Threaten with something like, "I'm going out tonight", but its all A BIG BLUFF, Because its in a Woman's Nature to Love and take care of things that's theirs, Some woman just don't have the heart to cheat.
Woman and Men are Made for each other, but that doesn't Mean we choose correctly, Most of Us don't and most of us have different things in mind, Like Sex, Money, Benefits, or A Trend/ The In thing to do, etc. I will touch on those subjects another time, Because I have wondered when then the Words "Wifey" and "Hubby" Become A Fashion Accessory, It really pisses me off, But with that said, If the Relationship isn't 50/50, It has a 92.9% Chance of Failin'. So Look closely in to your relationship and examine your Mate's actions.


-Written By Darren Talent.